Amidst everything going on over the last few days add massive frustration to what began as peaceful protesting in light of what injustices against George Floyd. I was asked to give my perspective on what is going on with black lives matter, white privilege and police brutality. If you disagree with parts of what I said in this video understand that’s ok. I just want to encourage starting the conversation for a productive purpose.
AMAS: Kenya Vol. 2
In this travel vlog, we get to explore the Kenyan countryside while learning fun facts from Maasai Development founder Jan Latsha. Along the way, you will also get to tour Maxwell Academy where we will meet some old friends from the past. Until next time.
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Special Thanks to Sharply and Maasai Development Project.
AMAS: Kenya Vol. 1
A Man About Style wants better showcase our adventures. Pictures may be worth a thousand words, but videos are more exciting. In our vlogs, we will give you a behind the scenes look at AMAS. We thought there would be no better way to kick off our new series than to hi-light our recent trip to Kenya. In the coming weeks, you will get to see all that Kenya has to offer. In this episode, we will take you grocery shopping through a Kenyan market. Enjoy!
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A Man About Style Celebrates Seattle Gents 1 year
Paris, London, and New York the fashion capitals of the world. Seattle may have its work cut out for it, but brands are noticing the tastemakers. Like many style journeys, men are behind. Noticing a void Antonio Smith and Avi Soor created a platform for the male creatives of the city.
The Seattle Gents is a menswear collective that looks to highlight Seattle culture through various forms of media. From podcasts to models this group has it all. In celebration of a year's worth of work. The Seattle Gents hosted an event for entrepreneurs, brands, and creatives. As you enjoy the highlights of the night, know this is only the begging for this group gentlemen.
Special thanks to brand sponsors:
Photography by Blake Gillies
IG: @blakelygillies
Dear Best Man.
The guy who had frosted tips, braces and lived in his momma's house years after college is getting married. Even if you don't believe in a higher power, at this moment, you know heaven and earth were moved. For your loyalty, through these rough years, you have been bestowed the honor of being his best man. So, now what?
Best Man Duities
Before the wedding.
Lucky for you, your "honey-do" list is not as long as your female counterpart. You are more than the bachelor party chairman, but for appropriate laughs, let us start there. The number one goal is that the groom has fun. No one wants Bender. The best way to plan this rite of a passage is to enlist the help of your fellow groomsmen. Also, ask the groom if there are any specific things he wants to do and if anything is off the table (i.e. hookers and blow). Once you have a baseline, make sure to inform the goom that his rights to add input have been revoked (trust us, its more fun this way). Please note, this is the central time for embarrassing moments to shine. Don't overdo it at the wedding or during the speeches. Whatever you choose, make sure the night or weekend is structured enough so that your not just sitting around watching SportsCenter or so jam-packed you have to rush. Remember: no matter what you choose to do your bud should look back at this event fondly.
Sure you know about the bachelor party, but you may also be asked to help in the selection of wedding suits and the groom's tuxedo. Some of our favorite places to look for inspiration are The Tie Bar and Generation tux. Even if your not a fashionisto, please be on notice: an excellent pocket square will elevate any suit, and your tie bar holds the tie in place once your jacket is taken off during the reception.
Other pre-wedding duties may include:
1. Helping with rehearsal dinner
2. Being the point of contact for all things groomsmen
3. Helping the groom with honeymoon planning/reservations
4. Organize the couple's departure from the reception
5. Selecting an appropriate - or inappropriate - gift for the groom from the groomsmen
Wedding Day
Today you are a “yes” man. It's ok to be stressed as long as it is on you and not the bride or groom. Do everything in your power to make the groom as relaxed as possible. From helping to usher Gram-ma-ma to the dimple in the groom's tie, you're the man with a plan. Honestly, this should go without saying, but make sure the groomsmen go easy on the sauce; this isn't a tailgate. During the ceremony, you will be handling the ring and walking the maid of honor up and down the aisle. If you are confused about where to be or what to do, that is the time to coordinate your movements with the wedding planner.
Other Wedding tasks:
1. Sign the marriage license
2. Make sure groomsmen have the boutonnieres attached properly
3. Make sure groomsmen are where they need to be for pictures
The Best Man Speech
You did it! You - yes you - got him down the aisle! Now is your time to shine: the best man speech. This is not a time to wing it. If you are not a wordsmith, it's ok to research jokes and words of wisdom. Go over your speech with someone beforehand to ensure people will react the way you want them too. The perfectly crafted speech will create moments of laughter and love. Being bestowed with the honor of best man is no small matter, show your appreciation by giving him a speech worth remembering!
Our Speech Tips:
1. Keep it 5-8 min long
2. Stay away from inside jokes
3. Acknowledge the groom and especially the brides family
4. Memorize your speech
5. DON'T get the brides name wrong (Yikes!)
IF YOU NEED SOME INSPIRATION HERE IS MY HUMBLE SAMPLE:
For those who don't know me I'm Richard aka the lost Toebe brother but more importantly, I have been Marty and Stephanie's third wheel for the last half a decade.
First off I want to thank Stephanie's for saying yes because Rich and Gail were running out of ideas to get Marty to move out of the house...he is pushing 30 Y'all.
Speaking of I want to acknowledge Gail and Rich and of course the parents of the bride Susan and Roger without them this beautiful day would not be possible.
Marty, we have been friends a long time, but this isn’t about you and me it’s about you and Stephanie. I would be remiss if I didn't acknowledge how beautiful Stephanie looks. Now, Stephanie, could you take your hand and put it on the table. Now Marty put your hand on top of hers. I want you to remember this moment because this will be the last time you ever have the upper hand in this relationship.
Stephanie, I want you to take a deep breath and remember this moment... One day you're going to be tired from a long day at work and you're going to have to do laundry and your going to find one of Marty's draws and they are going to look like they were wiped on a coal minors brow... Remember this moment...Because love endures.
Now, Marty, I want you to take a deep breath, look at Stephanie and tell her "I love you." Remember she will never tire hearing these words from you. As a married man there will come a point in time where you think "well I married you isn't that good enough" and when that happens remember this moment!
As a married man of 0 years, I want to give you some advice since I’m so qualified.
As you embark on this new journey, keep in mind to practice forgiveness. Even though dating is over love can still be a battlefield.
I challenge you to love deeper.
And lastly live with purpose individually and as a couple.
As I raise my glass I just want to end my toast by saying
In your new life:
May your neighbors respect you.
Trouble neglect you.
Angels protect you.
And heaven accept you.
To Marty and steph!
With that, you are good to go. Now go find yourself a bridesmaid.
Special thanks to Marty & Stephanie
Photography by Emily Star Pool
Indochino
Indochino Seattle
A Man About Style
In the words of Jay-Z "nobody's built like you, you have to design yourself." Many of us feel that buying made to measure is out of reach, even if our we are far from the "average body type." With this in mind, Indochino set out to make buying made to measure convent, cost-effective and accessible. The Canadian based retailer was the first company to deliver mass customized men's clothing directly to consumers and remains the largest in the world. Today we will guild you through two tailored Indochino experiences. For the progressive, buying a made to measure suit is now only one click away. For the classic man, the revered relationship between a man and his tailor still holds value.
Step 1: GET MEASURED
The progressive:
Like most men, the toils of life seem to always be beckoning. When you shop, you are well educated about what you want. Since you are a self-starter in all things, you elect to go to indochino.com. There are a lucky few who have their measurements in hand. If that isn't your story? Relax, all you need is a few minutes on your feet and a friend that can read a measuring tape. After that, just follow the step by step video prompts and enter your measurements. The final process is to set up your measurement profile, which will take less than 10 minutes and can be done from anywhere you choose.
The Classic Man:
One of the amenities of buying bespoke attire is that customer service is not a suggestion. As men, we have few sanctuaries. Like the barbershop, an Indochino showroom is a place for free thought and expression. We at AMAS suggest you visit the new Seattle location, but they the have many beautiful spaces across the United States and Canada. Upon arrival, the vibes and ambiance make you feel comfortable. Once checked in, your suiting professional will take your measurements. During this process, you are encouraged to be yourself. If you desire peace from the hustle and bustle, this is your refuge. Here at A Man About Style, we promote the art of healthy conversation and dialogue, since we all can learn from the stories and experiences of others.
Step 2: Fabric Choice
The Progressive:
While online you will be given the option to choose your garment by model, fabric or color. As a seasoned shopper, you can easily find out the garments makeup. Other running details include garment care, season suggestions, and wardrobe functionality.
The classic Man:
You know that fabric choice is the key to longevity. So being able to discuss how a piece of fabric will breath always be useful to you. An advantage of visiting a showroom is the ability to see how vibrant a color or pattern is. The sharp dresser also knows texture is as big apart of putting an outfit together as color or design. If you are a novice or veteran the interpersonal connection, you will have with your suiting professional will prove valuable for education and inspiration.
Step 3: Customizations
The Progressive and "Classic" man both have similar experiences when it comes to customization. Indochino has a vast selection of options from lapel types, jacket vents, buttons, and monogramming. We do suggest when customizing your garment less is more. If your suit is muted, go bold with your inside liner or vice versa. Whatever you choose make sure that the clothing reflects an image befitting your best self. Indochino is here to inspire confidence that people can admire.
Special offer.
- INDOCHINO is offering up 70% off everything online and in their showrooms from now until Black Friday
- Our Black Friday coupon code is: BLKFRI
As friends of AMAS, we want to Hook You Up with $50 to shop with Indochino.com
The Final Product
'As men we have few sanctuaries.'
RANDY BINNING
Vice President of Retail Operations
Photography BY: Arturo Garza
Instagram: Arturogarzaphotoghy
Who Are We?
A man about style is for the curator, the connoisseur, and the debonair. We are required to display all of these qualities at any given time, yet many of us are never given the blueprint. Through our story, we aspire to enrich you in the areas of lifestyle and fashion. Like bespoken attire, we aim to make you look great, and request that you also give your best.
Here's to a productive, fashionable future.
-RICHARD MEHARRY